Online dating 40 year old woman

You need to not take it personally, because it's really not about you. What happened to manners? It's a lost art it would seem. With something else just around the next 'swipe', it's transactional. People put you in their cart with no intention to purchase. My more experienced single friends tell me it's the 'shopping cart' effect. My worst was one hour before meeting someone. I have lost count of how much time I have wasted on small talk chats to then be stood up, or for them to just disappear for no reason. Keep an eye on consistency and how they present across all shots before you commit to a swipe. I always look for the ones where they are having fun and not looking ominous.

I don't love exercise but I also think it tells you they care a lot about externals and what their external looks like. If I see more than one gym mirror selfie, it's a no. So they either have dirty mirrors in their selfies (eek), or they look too serious (like serial killers), or they use their corporate professional headshots.